Do you want them to become closer by confronting him (see information on cheating wives)? My H is pursuing healing, our marriage is fully restored and thriving, we are living our best lives. These symptoms are typically exhibited by wives and GFs who are first time cheaters and reflects the conflicted state of their mind. Really man, get some self-respect. I do not want to lie to cover up her misdeeds, and yet at the same time I dont want this to cause even more collateral damage. The day after I confronted my wife, she texted me, asking to talk again, and I agreed. We CAN FINALLY move forward! More often than not, it's better to keep the discussion between you and your spouse rather than involve the other person. Why? I insisted on being told the truth or she was to Only if you think you can shame them out of the affairs. Probably you should decide whether its OK for her to continue. If so, treat them as anyon One more charismatic and sexier than you? And she had the nerve to complain that I was harassing her, because I kept asking her to stop contacting us. I will not confront her. Some people respond by backing down, some people respond by attacking, and some people will try to avoid the confrontation makes your wife really central. I was trying for medical school, and my grades were pristine. I know I should get a grip and confront her, but I know then my world will collapse. There are no secrets with her family. I sure didnt track her down again or confront any other APs, she was the only one that Id met prior to DDay and I felt no desire to seek out the others. She woman would rather call the police and have me slapped with a warning THAT WILL show up on enhanced criminal record checks for life than have a conversation with me. Me? document.write(new Date().getFullYear()) Or is such a confrontation likely to scare the other person away? Go get a big steak, go lift some weights and then think about this. NEVER. So, lesson learned, do not contact the AP. If you have no one and just want to vent, please send me a message and I will listen to all you want to say on skype. If you really think she will change then I have huge admiration for you, but it'll be a rough journey and you need to be able to be open with each other. So what about those of us whose AP's are still hanging on through other family members? Nobody and I repeat nobody respects a doormat. Marriages are based on open communication, trust, and a common goal. Letting the cheater have the affair partner. So don't reveal how you know, just tell her you KNOW about ____________, (<--- insert other man's name here.). My mistake was I kept responding, and begging my husband to make her stop. So I planned to go with him for one of his away weeks. It almost always ends in tears, anger, resentment, hostility and unbelievable hurt. If its possible, I dont want to lose that. Sorry, but better to find out now that she is what she is than 10 years down the road. I never c) Reconciliationthat is if you so desire a reconciliation ( I personally would not). That is all. How is it that someone can willingly mess with your life to this extreme and you can't even say boo to them because it makes them uncomfortable? Hope for Healing Registration Soon! But I would never answer the call. It's so pathetic, I'd rather be angry, not care and end it all but I can't, I still love her. Don't play your hand that you *know* about the other man. *You are continuous and undying. I hope this vignette is helpful to others thinking about whether to contact an AP. Thanks everyone for your messages. His jig was officially up. Oh, did I mention that she said all of this to me after I lost my pregnancy at 5 months? So, I dunno, I think it's a case by case scenario. You are too feeble minded to comprehend this. This may be hard to understand in the cold light of day. Walking away from this lets you maintain your dignity and self respect. WebIm confronting my wifes affair partner today. My wife has been mishandling the truth as of late and I want to help you if I can. It was easy for her to manipulate his schedule in order for them to spend time together. Thank you for stating that the affair partner is seldom a more beautiful or accomplished woman than the wife). Doing that wouldnt make a difference Eseiegbe Efe. You'll probably fish more information out of her that way anyhow. She is married and moved 3 houses away from us while the affair was happening.She pursued a friendship with me. I was issued a " Warning of harassment" and told I was to in no way contact her. So he knows hes had what I call his fling. WebYour spouse has already betrayed your trust at a very basic level, so confronting the other person may provide your spouse with the opportunity to openly demonstrate how much KEEP IT FOCUSED ON HER ACTIONS, NOT YOURS. If you need more information about the affair(s), hire a private investigator or become a computer snoop. If you are reading this here, can you let me know? She vowed to leave him and told me she had divorce papers ready to go. He turned so pale, looking like he honestly thought Id never find out at all. She wanted to share everything. Edited July 12, 2011 by yawn_interrupted got angry when I discovered you 2 were friends. provide your spouse with the opportunity to openly demonstrate how much he/she cares about his/her lover. Their love cannot be denied. Not there yet. This material, and other digital content on this website, may not be reproduced, published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed in whole or in part without prior express written permission from PUNCH. My wife and I are doing very well but still see him all over town daily . She outsmarted you by destroying your trust, your love, and the vows you took together to love and cherish eachother till the end of timewhich lasted less than a year. She even apologized, and sounded sincere. Should I wait to see the outcome of that? Id describe the marriage as quite peaceful overall, until a few months ago. None of that should affect you however. jesus My friend you are in big time denial. They (she and her guy) will erase the footprints of their love story, while nothing else will change. Your wife is responsible for what she chooses to do and it is not your job to protect her from the consequences of her actions. When you have all your ducks in a row, have gone past the PI phase, moved on with the evidence to an attorney, and the attorney has compiled it all together and made the initial moves and it is time to serve her the papers, you must still be nonchalant and appear ignorant about the giant moves underway. What if you should meet up with her by chance? Then she changed her tune and told me "he'd never been in love with me and was going to start a new life with her." Will your spouse take your side? All rights reserved. 2018 Truth About Deception, Examples of contacting the other person . Can't you see you're dealing with an uber being? As we discussed more, I think I understand more now. Any how. How could one as dim and sexless as you understand someone as compelling as them? Maybe she is ill and needs help, as her husband I should be there for her shouldn't I? And perhaps the most surprising feeling of all- elation, mixed with relief. She denied knowing he was ever married (lie) and blamed everything on him. You deserve better. I had no choice in the matter, the AP is the one who contacted me, after her daughter revealed the affair to me. My H and her had very similar personality. I found Affair Recovery when I was at the darkest point in my life, and this course has helped me to get myself on a true path to recovery." She didn't say anything about the affair. 3. Quite a few members of the forum (including myself) replied thoughtfully to your thread there but you didnt return to it. I recently discovered my husband of 19 years had been involved in an 8 month long affair with a co worker from an other town 7 hours away. I offer my experience only by way of illustration. No response this time. If you are going through it, I wish you faith, hope, and persistence. She again became very angry with him telling him it's not her problem. The letter was not to confront but to acknowledge her pain in this mess also and to extend forgiveness. Anger for her betrayal, lies, and coverup. Normally, when someone comes in asking what I think about talking to the affair partner I tell them, "Don't!" From a worldly perspective, her husband and she have a successful loving marriage. The letter outlined what had been going on in our lives over the last couple years and how I understood what and why my husband had been looking for attention. Its normal to feel the way you are feeling, and to lose the grip with reality. Blessings to all the betrayed out there. Before using the site, please read our Privacy Policy and Terms of Use. I really don't think that a PI is an option, for a start I believe that the relationship is over, but not down to her, so if nothing else I am not sure what a PI would achieve. No, I cannot and will not confront her in public. You poor pathetic chump, begging for your marriage. Then I ghosted. Hugs all around. Dump her, go NC and live life and work on being a stronger person. I want to slap you! of which is counseling (see counseling resources). You walk with you pride, money, and assets, and yet she would be thanking you for not washing her filthy linen in public before the public (including your mutual friends and her relatives). Ignoring this is not an option, it will only eat away at me. Its hard to do when the AP is the down stairs neighbor and you have to see them multiple times a day and money doesn't allow you to move for 2 more months. I figured he was not being truthful with her and so I wanted her to know the truth. Keep your emotions under complete control. Butwhat do you intend to do with this confrontation? Not sure I agree with this. Oh well. Always a way out. But that, in of itself is helpful. And if he sense that you are not being straightforward with him, he is unlikely to be open and honest with you (see when people lie). You are also agreeing to our Terms of Service and Privacy Policy. Until you finally hit acceptance. Not yours. Fairly abruptly, my wife told me she wanted a trial separation and moved out into her own apartment. . I'm not sorry I did, but it probably wasn't the smartest thing I've ever done. I sent it to his Dr.s office. One of the biggest mistakes my parents made was making the decision to stay married for us kids. So I answered the call that night and two hours later it was all over. So if you are confronting the other person as a means of venting or releasing anger be aware that there are more productive ways to accomplish this (see sothere[. Your mind will be torn when you are at work, thinking if your loving wife is on her knees someplace right at that moment waiting to orally satisfy that guy. My wife is lying to me. Ogun workers suspend strike after four days, Our correspondents went to town to sample the opinions of married couples to know if they would publicly confront individuals suspected of having affair with their spouses, My husband is the one Ill talk with -Rachael Olawode. Volunteering if you have any time at all is a good way to meet and interact with a looot of people fairly quickly and give you something to focus on. When the PI is done with his job, he will have a watertight folder of documentary evidence that nails her infedility. I want to call his cell this morning and say "this is very awkward for me but do you have a couple minutes. If she doesnt stop she should consider the marriage over. We even went and had drinks with her and the other other woman lol. Expose the affair to the OM's wife or girlfriend 4. If you need to flag this entry as abusive. But I am not vindictive. Youre as naive as they come. He was suspicious of her acts but never in his wildest of dreams he had thought that situation could be this much worse. Don't let this woman use you as a doormat or she will cheat on you again. A lying, deceitful, manipulator. How do I get past my disdain for this other person? I would like to communicate with you further! When the scales fall off his eyes, he will know his way home. As a result we dont talk, perhaps this is for the better.why do I need two faced people around me and my children. Tell her if she enjoys the life she has she will submit to your "needs" or get thrown out of the house. You need to be honest, upfront, and confront her with what you know. I hope you'll consider our EMS Online course for couples. Two days later because I was in the same town as she was I text her and asked if she would be willing to meet for coffee. Contributors control their own work and posted freely to our site. Ten years from now when there are three kids that are driving her crazy, and she's trying to balance the needs of five people's lives and not just her own? It is better that I know him. I think, the storm has passed. Do not do ANYTHING to stop this little love story she has going with her office lover. I feel that it is great that you do the same . What you will be going through is denial, bargaining, depression, anxiety, resentment, anger, etc. So while you may have an Every now and then she reaches out to my husband, every time it really upsets me. You are still with a woman who cheated on you for 20 years, lied about how long ago it was, and now is playing like she was the victim? Thanks for listening. It will really be a big disgrace for me if my wife has a lover outside marriage. Wednesday 18 January 2023 05:42, UK No matter how much I feel like she is the enemy and is not a good person, it was my husband's responsibility to put a stop to this craziness and he has not done that. It's been many years since that drama unfolded into a finale of heartbreak, tears, and fury. What is your deal? Whats wrong with you? Leave the wife and go away its her fault to have her lovers all together. Get rid of her you dont need I don't think that is a path you want to go down, unless you want to be a cuckold husband. Thank you!! It's not about me. I atoned for my actions. Worse, if you come at them all classy -- appealing to their sense of shared humanity and common decency -- they will delight in their superiority. It did help me just to know she knew the truth. Your son, any pets, and yourself. To outsmart her and pretend, while your team gets on her case. I want to stay married. Build on yourself, learn all you can, and eventually you will love again when you are ready. I believe my spouse and I can talk things over and settle our differences without involving a third party. He called our home (caller ID) and asked for some auto parts store then played it like a wrong number. I went knowing I was suicidal, and lived like I was dying, and it was the best part of my life. Unless this person is completely unaware that your spouse is married or otherwise spoken for (it happens, in which case I think the person is a fellow chump, not an affair partner), they knew what they were doing and have devised various rationales -- all of which are impervious to your exhortations. You have to know who you are and what you can handle. I wish i had never done this and had never said anything to my H. Just for my ducks in a row and left preserving my dignity. It is my wife I have a business with. This is just a new beginning. Now the dad is dying of cancer and maybe has a year to live. Ill disgrace myself, kids, family if I do that- Ibrahim Badmus. Tough! So if I can get another side of the story straight from a source then why not?! It still hurts and I need to move on. Once again, i have never been in your position before, so im coming from the outside here. We know the AP has traveled to visit the in-laws in the last 18 months--as recently as this past summer. You are wondering if she will get banged by that dude today or not. You will get through this. It was true, I DID have to have them. I owe to my family and children though and will stand in my head to make things work. When you have a PI on your corner, he will ask you to stop shadowing her or tinkering with her email etc. File for divorce dude. The great part about this is, youre already moving through all the steps. That we two have serious problems and good luck. I dont have any business with the man. ]com), one So atleast you have that going for you. We think they have no idea that when my husband met the AP, she was married to one man, living with another man, and getting on Ashley Madison looking for married men for sex. You will never be able to trust her, you'll be constantly checking up on her, whenever you are apart you will be torturing yourself with what she may be doing what kind of marriage is that??? Like it has ended. Make it CLEAR that you're aware of the truthbut be vague on details. THAT was my mistake. I wonder if you read the replies there. Butbe prepared for her to deny and deny and deny until confronted with that proof. If I confront her lover and we ended up fighting and I am badly injured, I am the one that will be ashamed. Just remove yourself from the equation. And only one person would be able to keep the $hit from hitting the fan. I was done with him, what had I to say to her not my problem, not my problem, not my Like my husband stood up to defend my honor, becquse we did Iit together! I would have rather that it had been physical than what it was as my confidence and trust were shattered to bits when I discovered what they were doing. Recovery took a long time, but now we are getting better. You are also agreeing to our Terms of Service and Privacy Policy. Most likely, youll come across as being insincere and manipulative. This doesnt tarnish who you are or what you can become. Until I did. We all live in the same city..a small one..ugh! Rick's comment that people affair down, not up, is very interesting & my guess is that he's right. Yeah, there's some irony in that, huh? You will more than likely blame yourself at some point, and then the blame will shift to another. It's been so bad that our daughters don't really even care to see or speak to their grandfather before he dies. I was drained and ready to move on. If he has a lover aside from me, it is his cup of tea. Confronting the affair partner is the essence of the pick me dance. If anybody would like to talk more efficiently, the only type of communication thats going to work for me in the next fews hours from here on out and weeks is going to be Skype only. She asked me about particular details only a lover would know. Do talk to her about the situation. That's for myself. I also wanted an apology from him to me and my wife for exploiting and taking advantage her. Either you've got really low self-esteem and opt to be a side dish, or you're flamingly narcissistic. Or am I simply deluding myself? He bolted. Sofor really the first time in 38 years I am very serious in considering getting a divorce. It is scary, but it is so worth it. Do you really need this person harassing you and pressing charges? - S., Alabama | November 2020 Hope for Healing participant. Talking to the other person can cut both wayssometimes it drives a wedge between a cheating spouse and his or her lover. I believe my healing restarted every other day. Dont ever contact the ow . My wife of almost 35 years told me she had had an affair with her boss and my friend almost 30 years ago. HomeForumsRelationshipsConfronted my wife tonight. I feel a true sense of completion now. That's where all of us recovering from adultery need to focus. -- you're going to validate their assumptions. Yes, bills, parenting, and life goes on. He allowed her to remain in control of how this would play out. You might delude yourself into thinking you need to talk with the affair partner for reconnaissance purposes. It can start with your attitude and habits toward mudane chores, and grow into appreciation for the littlest of lifes pleasures. Stop hoping, praying, reasoning, panicking, dreaming. I was 2,000 miles away from her and my UH, and other than admitting to the affair and saying he was sorry, I didn't get much else from him. Your identity and who you are has changed. How fabulous. Your wife had a 20 year affair, and you believe it was none of her fault? Wow. (The affair is over.). Copyright 2004 Do NOT confront your sweet wife with anything. The other woman is also married. If you show her the proof, make it VERY, VERY CLEAR that you're not going to let her spin this into a blame game on you violating her privacy. When we met I did not confront him but rather simply asked him how it started & what it meant to him & so on. But i hope i can be of some assistance. You need to calmly explain your feelings and tell her to put herself in your shoes. Regardless of Can you imganine the drama and the extra stress? At this point she clearly has no respect for you whatsoever. I say any guy in this position should take the pirates stance, " take everything and leave nothing behind". I would have asked openhanded questions to see what his responses would be and compare them to what my wife said. But the pain never really goes away completely. Please note: The suggestions and advice offered on this web site are opinions only and are not to be used in the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice. WAKE UP! It doesnt really matter if you confront the (lovers!). Like Robert said it really can create more issues and its not a fact that youll prove your What exactly can make my husband to shift attention from me to another lady to demand sex when I can give it to him? Yes, you most definitely should and I'll tell you why. Chances are if u are debating a subject such as this you've recently found out your wife che If these women didn't respond, then I would have moved on and dealt with what I knew to be true for me. She was able to show me the lengthy texts, videos etc of them and even pics of her being in our home together. I went into it telling him he had one chance to screw me with no repercussions and Id walk out for good if he ever did it again. The law states that if you contact somone more than one time and they don't want to her from you because it makes them feel uncomfortable or bad about themselves it can be looks at as a " course of conduct" and you can be issued a warning. Got a response. Sounds like you handled things like a lady. You might find out what would shock you: Before you agree to meet with the other man/woman you must analyze the possibilities of what you might be told and how it might The best person to face if such a situation arises is my husband. Our baby is now 8 mo. Your wife does not respect you or your marriage. Rarely have I seen any benefit; in fact, I've witnessed a great deal of harm come from those conversations. Even so, now you could get her to reconcile on YOUR TERMS. Emotional purgatory and indeed more complex and torturous than can be placed into words. My husbands job was about to dictate him to be working out of the town he and his AP spent time in on a two week gone one week home schedule for the next three months. She sent him a nasty gram including things like " I was forced to listen to her message" that she "almost felt sad for me listening to my voice" and when I asked her for "conformation of status" in my message she replied to him with "That girl has trust issues" he didn't reply. There might also be some truth in it -- but how messed up is that? If you do not respect yourself then who will? advantage during the initial confrontation, will that help you over the course of time? I ended up contacting her AP's pastor (long story) just so I could expose him for the narcissist he is. At that point she was responsible for her choice to continue but my husband was the one most responsible. And why you didnt post there following the replies? To reclaim your self respect. To protect her. If I can only bottle a dosage of reality and sell it FACK! My husband claimed she called it off. It's all good. lol! My head was kind of spinning due to this, and then I accidentally And But she is liking photos his cousin is putting up of them fishing. 3. *Embrace the Initial Pros: Sad because one side of the bed is empty? Made contact. Which brings us to the other reason you should not confront the affair partner 2. Each day with be different. It made things a lot worse in life. First, you must prepare yourself to deal with the situation in a mature manner and you My advice is that you need to confront your wife. Your relationship is with her, not with her lovers. The shocking twist to this story is that the purported man is not only a coworker, The reason(s) for making contact I may never fully understand but I am confident it was the right decision for me to make. That I forgave her. Over analysing this is doing my head in - I need to take action, however painful. You will now need to get tested for STD's as well as your wife. 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